@doghair 没有90%也有99%的相似度了!(嘿嘿屁股好内个哦!
@Narcissus 好漂亮!这种花好像是叫天堂鸟?
@deesapoetra@qoto.org @Acer@qoto.org
I’m not sure if you really understand the point of the video. The video is about shifting the attention by responding with questions so that women don’t feel the pressure and necessity to submit to offensive questions.
Obviously, you can always choose to respond with kindness. But I don’t think it’s a better way, as these questions are already very offensive. Asking the offended to bear the burden of responding with a less offensive answer is unfair.
I think it’s better to start educate men on what not to ask, instead asking women to “kill them with kindness”.
其实在分享这一个视频的时候想到了在自己身上发生的很多事。
很多人觉得“简单,骂回去就好啦”。但,“骂回去”这种事情在许久以前对我来讲是很有负担的事。我怕自己显得太不友善,私下交往时怕给别人造成伤害,工作场合怕让团队觉得我没有合作精神。
但后来意识到,在大部分情形下,对你提出这种冒犯性问题的人其实是想向你展示自己的地位优越性。伊并不想知道你的答案,只是想享受你纠结嗫嚅着回答时的样子。
所以以其人之道,还治其人之身。回对方一个小问题,给了自己反应时间,也让对方感受一下被拉入问题的尴尬。掌握节奏之后还可以顺便追加几个问题,美滋滋。
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